Blind, but Expected

I always wondered how certain people could be in a situation and not see what's happening, especially when the problem is obvious. Now I know how easy it is to be that person who doesn't see what's happening. I can't believe how blind I can be at times. I try to believe in the best of people, but it appears to be to the point of being naive. I grew up learning to be the kid who learned his manners, did the good deeds, and put others before himself, so I just thought everyone else was that way, too. Nowadays, I know that not everyone is good, but some people make mistakes. Others choose to make those decisions, though.

It's really hard to learn something about someone, especially if it's someone you hold in high respect, that you really didn't think they'd do. I, like always, just thought that this person was a good, honorable person who strived to prevent making decisions that aren't classified as good. When I first heard about it, I thought they mentioned someone else, but then I realized it was actually that person whom I respected.

After a few experiences this year, I've wanted to be given the ability to see through things and beneath the surface of other things. I wish I wasn't so blind at times. I speak highly of these people only to find out they aren't anything like what I thought. It's disappointing to go for such a long time of being friends with someone just to find out you don't really know that person at all.

Don't be blind. Think thoroughly about things and actually open up and talk to the person so you can find out who they are.